Face it-You are a salesperson!

Aren't we?

I will be giving a talk in a few weeks at Connecticut Philanthropy Day on Major Giving. While I am still working on exactly what I am going to present I am leaning toward giving a "you are a salesperson speech"!

Of the several hundred development directors and fundraising professionals that I have met with, interviewed, shared a conference or class room table with I cant even begin to count how many never actually go out and ASK for the gift. How many do not have a list of prospects, rate the prospects, list the interest or selling points for their case for each prospect, have hot/cold/warm prospect files etc.

Being a development director, or at least a good one, is no different than being a good salesperson. You must get out of your office, you must make face to face, person to person meetings with your prospects. You must find what interests your prospects and make sure you tailor your presentation or ask to meet those interests. You have to cold call, follow up, drop in, send nice little notes, and you have to get a bit lucky! Its one of the most difficult jobs in the world (being a salesperson) but its by far one of the most rewarding.

We are all selling! Always! At home my oldest is currently working on her "potty training". My wife is a master salesperson. She discusses the "case" with my daughter, seeks to find out what motivates her (is it being a big girl, going to school soon, being like her big cousins?) she seeks to discover what is motivating the little one. She constantly builds her "ask" her "sale" around those key motivations. There is a reward structure in place, there is constant contact, affirmation, stickers and applause! This is selling, this is major gifts fundraising!

I have a vivid memory of my 12th grade poetry teacher-Mr. Hunter. There was never a man so enthusiastic about poetry as "Hunter"-there was never a student so uninterested in poetry as yours truly. I can recall Hunter's enthusiasm, his passion for the subject, he tried to find some way to connect with each student, some way to make poetry meet our interests, some way for us to "buy" what he was "selling". Hunter was an outstanding teacher because he was a darn good salesperson-at least on this topic-a topic he was passionate about.

Embrace your inner salesperson-chances are without knowing it or admitting it you already have!